Intimacy IQ Test | UU 2026 Welcome Week Let's talk about dating, sex and consent. How we love, flirt, touch, and talk—it’s all shaped by the world around us. In our city, shaped by decades of global interaction and immigration, intimacy is anything but one-size-fits-all. Some of us are from here, some have just arrived, and some of our families have been here for a few generations. Relationships often cross cultural lines, influenced by different upbringings, values, and ways of expressing affection and attraction. Knowing how to navigate dating, sex, and consent is more than just a nice-to-have—it’s essential. Welcome to the Intimacy IQ Test. A space to reflect on how you connect emotionally, physically, and sexually. Through this self-exploratory journey, you’ll deepen your understanding of sexual consent, communication, and connection. https://www.cuelifetransition.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/Test.mp4 Are you ready to find out your sex communication style? I am not embarrassed to talk about sex with either my friends or my partner. Disagree Disagree Agree Agree None I find it difficult to disagree with authority figures. Disagree Disagree Agree Agree None I should avoid direct conflict or confrontation with people, even if I disagree with them. Disagree Disagree Agree Agree None I don't like engaging in small talk. Disagree Disagree Agree Agree None I believe that everyone should be able to challenge those in positions of power. Disagree Disagree Agree Agree None My parents' attitude to sex has inhibited me sexually. Disagree Disagree Agree Agree None I tend to misread someone's true intention if they use subtle hints to convey their message Disagree Disagree Agree Agree None I believe being polite is more important than being honest when I communicate with others. Disagree Disagree Agree Agree None I find it difficult to be clear and specific about my feelings and needs with my partner. Disagree Disagree Agree Agree None I am responsible for my own success and how far I get in life. Disagree Disagree Agree Agree None Wanting to watch porn makes me feel quite guilty. Disagree Disagree Agree Agree None It is my duty to take care of the people who are close to me, even if it comes at a personal cost. Disagree Disagree Agree Agree None I often use metaphors when communicating with others. Disagree Disagree Agree Agree None In team work, I expect those who have less experience than me to follow instructions with minimal questioning. Disagree Disagree Agree Agree None Members of a community should be loyal to each other, even if they do not agree. Disagree Disagree Agree Agree None I get squeamish, or avert my gaze, when a sex scene comes on during a movie. Disagree Disagree Agree Agree None I would rather say "no" directly, than risk being misunderstood. Disagree Disagree Agree Agree None Being able to take care of myself is the number one priority for me. Disagree Disagree Agree Agree None I often feel like I need to hide my sexual preferences (i.e. sexual orientation, kinks, sex drives, etc.) Disagree Disagree Agree Agree None In most situations, it's best to speak my mind, even if what is being said is undesirable to the listener. Disagree Disagree Agree Agree None It is more important for me to achieve personal goals than to conform to what is expected of me. Disagree Disagree Agree Agree None I don't feel the need to ask my parents/caretakers for permission before I make an important decision. Disagree Disagree Agree Agree None Masturbation can be a great way to relax and de-stress Disagree Disagree Agree Agree None It is difficult for me to refuse a request from someone senior to me Disagree Disagree Agree Agree None Just a few more questions! Please help us improve upon our research methods by answering a few more optional questions. This survey is anonymous and confidential collected data will only be used internally and reported in aggregate. What is your gender identity? Woman Man Non-binary person Other Prefer not to say None Is your gender identity the same as the sex you were assigned at birth? No Yes Prefer not to say None What is your sexual orientation? Homosexual Heterosexual Bisexual/ Pansexual Other Prefer not to say None Indicate the region that you consider your primary cultural influence If you identify with more than one region, please check the top 2 that apply. Europe Middle East Africa Asia Oceania North America Latin America What is your email? This information will be used to keep you informed about new CUE developments. Providing your email is optional but is recommended if you would like to retrieve your results.
